Wednesday, February 1, 2012
All My Single Ladies--- Valentine's Day Observations
Good Morning my curvy Divas,
It's that month again....yes February...the month where the newsfeeds on my facebook page are all about Valentine's Day. Some I read recently : I wonder what it's like to finally have a romantic Valentine's Day? ...I guess I'll take myself out to show myself how much I'm loved....etc. Now I have been single before and I know that sometimes Holidays can make much more aware of your relationship status, but stop with the pity parties. JUST.STOP.
Every relationship is not created equal so stop wishing for ANYONE just to have a mate. Some people are in horrible relationships...relationships where they may be verbally and physically abused, belittled, cheated on excessively etc..so when you are putting your wishes out into the universe remember the law of attraction. If your facebook page reads like a singles ad, you might attract a guy that preys on desperate women that want so badly to have a guy..ANY guy.
When I was single, I didn't think any less of myself because I didn't have a mate. Single doesn't equal failure in the relationship arena....I'd much rather see a single girl that is learning to love herself than a serial monogamist that jumps from relationship to relationship that has NO idea who she is and changes who she is based on her partner. Single is amazing when you are taking the proper steps to set your standards before getting back into the dating arena and being clear about what you don't want in your next mate.
In a loving relationship Feb 14th is just a day. A real man will make you feel loved and special all year round THAT'S why I say that Valentine's Day is overrated. If your happiness can be bought with candy, balloons, and roses you are not asking for much.
You know what I wanna see you single girls in? Body con dresses, sexy lips, tantalizing hair and sky high heels.........now WERK.
Until Next Time